What to wear and how to shop... This is definitely the time of year when those wedding invites may send you into a panic of what to wear.  But before you head to the shops here are a few questions worth pondering on for a moment ... Do I have a fabulous dress lurking in the wardrobe that guests haven't seen me in before? Can I up-style it with a few new accessories and create a whole new look? Do I have some wonderful shoes that need a special occasion?  This could be a starting…