The "alternative bride" I'm referring to here is myself!  I got engaged last February to my gorgeous boyfriend of four years! I have been debating whether or not to write about this.  After all this isn't a personal blog per say and wondering to myself "Is it that interesting? Does anyone want to hear about another bride-to-be obsessing over every last detail?"  Then over the last month or so, having been busy doing my own research online, chatting to people and pouring over wedding magazines, I discovered that I actually really enjoy reading and listening…